Thursday, June 23, 2016

Sexual Abuse Healing




The greatest obstacle in overcoming the trauma of sexual abuse can be the acceptance of spirit led deliverance orchestrated by our Lord and savior and then carried out by the Holy Spirit. It can be an agonizing process because the process of deliverance is also attached to being able to genuinely forgive the perpetrator. This process can sometimes take many years as layer upon layer of wounds and pain are being constantly uncovered, exposed and then, at some point healed. Consequently, there are times we will not be aware that healing in a particular area has even taken place until another unrelated painful event takes place, and the Holy Spirit shines His light into an area of your spirit, and you discover there is no longer darkness dwelling there. The most valuable lesson I have learned through this process is: Pain sometimes heals pain, and wounds can often heal other wounds, when we submit our mind will and emotions to the Lordship of God the Father, Jesus the Son, and the Holy Spirit. They will together orchestrate the perfect plan for our complete healing and redemption. To God be all glory, honor and praise. Amen!


Wednesday, June 8, 2016

The Spirit OF Rejection

For the victim of sexual trauma rejection, is a spirit that if permitted, will attach itself to its prey with a vengeance. This spirit comes to do one thing: Steal, kill, and destroy whatever God is going to do in your life. God's remedy is clear, according to James 4:7. Submit yourselves therefore to God and he (the devil) will flee from you. Yes, you must fight for the restoration of your soul. Satan will not let you go easily or, without a fight. You may have been one of his chief soldiers. Your freedom will only be won by submitting to all that was accomplished for you through the shed blood of Christ on the Cross at Calvary. Activate your redemption, by asking Christ into your heart and claiming all that has already been done for you, completely accepting Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Let the redeemed of the Lord say so, whom he hath redeemed from the hand of the enemy. Psalm 107:1-3.



John 6:36-38New King James Version (NKJV)
36 But I said to you that you have seen Me and yet do not believe. 37 All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the one who comes to Me I will by no means cast out. 38 For I have come down from heaven, not to do My own will, but the will of Him who sent Me.








Tuesday, June 7, 2016

Get Delivered From The Seeds Sown Through Sexual Abuse














No one could have ever convinced me that the hole in my soul would someday be healed, as a result of being filled with the love of Christ. I just assumed my inner pain, shame, self-hatred, and loss of dignity and self-respect would be a permanent part of my life until the very end. Every form of disappointment, through a situation created by myself or others, seemed to confirm my belief, that I was not good enough, or worthy of the goodness, grace, and mercy Christ promised in His word. Then I stumbled on the stark reality that my problem had not so much to do with the abuse, but rather the strongholds that were created as a result of the abuse. My freedom was not contingent on forgetting the trauma of the painful events but had more to do with getting free from the fortress that had been designed to keep me in a constant state of mental defeat. Spirit, soul and body. A Chronicle of the most important aspects of my journey will be released soon.The Journey from sexual abuse victim to victory over the abuse, in Jesus Christ. My desire is to comfort others with the same comfort I have been comforted with. 2 Corinthians 3:1-5.


Monday, June 6, 2016

Father To The Fatherless

 My father in my eyes was bigger than life. He was the everything I felt a dad should be. He was the epitome of the perfect man. He walked right, talked right, smelled and dressed right. What a sense of pride I would feel, when I would see that candy apple red Cadillac come rolling down the street. Everything in my head would just start spinning. That’s my dad I would think to myself. The greatest man on the face of the earth. It never dawned on me that while he lived in the best part of town, my mother struggled in the projects, hustling to keep food on the table, clothes on our backs and a roof over our heads. As a result, I was constantly bounced from one place to another. We were without local family support or government assistance to rescue us. Unfortunately, this led to some tragic consequences that have since healed, in the last couple of years. Never let anyone convince you that you are too old to heal, regarding a traumatic event from your past, if the memory is painful, God will heal it. Again, you are never too old to be healed and set free. Sadly, as I entered adolescence, my father began to act as if I no longer existed. This was a time when I needed his love guidance, as much as air to breathe. The messaged I received from his rejection was: Yes, I love my father with all my heart, and he loves me maybe not so much. The Africans have a Proverb that sums it up: Where the heart is the body will be. Fortunately, I found out I had another father who would never leave or forsake me. His love is completely unconditional and comes to restore and comfort when the slightest emotional need of His child is detected. In my 28 years of walking with Him, he has never allowed me to share a single tear. When it comes to fathers, our heavenly Father is more than enough. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves the crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18.